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时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人  

2016-12-21 16:21:31|  分类: 微言微語微哲理 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

 
    时间越来越贵,
    越是要留给说话不累的人。

和这样的人说话,总让人觉得很累:

“你还未说完,他就打断你;刚解释过的问题重复问上好几遍;有一句没一句地回应着……”
    原本两分钟就能讲完的事,解释两个小时还未妥。


时间浪费不少,还不能有效地解决问题。


如果你身边有这样的人,能避而远之的,就请远离。


时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

 

 不要在说话累的人身上浪费时间


这些人,并不是因为沟通能力有多差,而是他们根本不屑你说的,要么心不在焉的听,要么先入为主,要么强加武断……


就像周濂的那本书名《你永远都无法叫醒一个装睡的人》,你也永远无法说通一个态度有问题的人。


扁鹊多次拜见蔡桓公,“大王,你这病再不治,会日益严重。”


蔡桓公,对医生心存偏见“医生都喜欢成天给没病的人治病,用这种方法来证明自己的医术。”不以为然地回:“我没病,不用你医治。”


扁鹊就这么三番五次的劝说,每次却都是徒劳。


蔡康永曾在书中写道:“对于天生防卫心强或个性冷淡,只需有礼地说清楚该说的话,就可以闪了。”


真正的沟通也并非在于语言,而在于彼此的态度。若一个人交谈时,态度有问题,就真的没必要与之费口舌,浪费时间了。


时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

 

舒适的谈话,是把别人的话放心上


相反,那些说话不累的人,要么一点就通,要么虚心听取,交流起来也很轻松愉悦。


曹操看中曹植的才华,想废了曹丕,立曹植为太子,于是征求贾翊的意见。但贾翊却一声不吭。


曹操好奇地问:“你为什么不说话?”


贾翊答:“我在想袁绍、刘表废长立幼招致灾祸的事。”


曹操听后哈哈大笑,即刻明白贾翊的意思,于是再也不提废太子之事。


最轻松舒适的交谈,莫过于此,点到为止,彼此便能心有领会,无需过多解释。


就像安得鲁S.葛洛夫说的“沟通得很好,并非决定于我们对事情述说得很好,而是决定于彼此被了解得有多好。“


而了解的前提是,能把他人的话放在心上,细细体会。

时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

 

时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人


不管什么时候,我们都更乐意和相处舒适的人在一起。


赫尔曼·黑塞曾说:“人生十分孤独,没有一个人能读懂另一个。”漫漫人生路,能遇到懂你的甚难,但兴许就能在不累的交谈中找得。


鲁迅碰到瞿秋白时,感慨“人生得一知己足矣,斯世当以同怀视之”。


能找一个聊得来的人,是一种难得的幸福,亦是我们大多数人向往的,正如李白的那句诗 “人生贵相知”。

时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

 

时间那么贵,留给相处不累的人 - 猫咪宝贝 - shuchongqin的博客

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